Relatives Ghost Us. Change of Plans.
Nov. 26th, 2025 09:48 pmThanksgiving triplog #10
Manassas, VA · Tue, 25 Nov 2025. 9am.
Our plan for this Thanksgiving week trip, like the past several years, was to spend the first half of the week visiting my relatives plus some of Hawk's friends in the Washington, DC suburbs then spend the second half of the week with her parents in Pennsylvania. It has been tough trying to make plans to visit 3 of my nieces. We've been trying to arrange dates and times to visit since September. They've ghosted most of our contact attempts. One finally offered a non-committal idea then said (basically) "Sorry, something came up" in pulling back from it. Well, we've been here in the area for 3 days now with no further answers, despite us reaching out, gently, once a day. We're done trying.
Our plan was to stay here through tomorrow, then drive up to Pennsylvania on Wednesday. We figured we could leave early or late depending on Wednesday plans. But at this point we couldn't even line up Tuesday plans. So this morning we called an audible. We'lre packing our bags now to leave a day early. We'll run one quick errand in town then hit the road to Pennsylvania. Hawk's parents are already really happy they'll get to see us a day early.
It's a sad extension of how I've already limited time visiting my own family the past two years. Now it pertains to more of my extended family. They're too busy living their lives to make time to see me when I try to visit. So after a reasonable try I move on. At least I have somewhere to go where people are excited to see me. It's bittersweet it's my inlaws instead of my own family.
Manassas, VA · Tue, 25 Nov 2025. 9am.
Our plan for this Thanksgiving week trip, like the past several years, was to spend the first half of the week visiting my relatives plus some of Hawk's friends in the Washington, DC suburbs then spend the second half of the week with her parents in Pennsylvania. It has been tough trying to make plans to visit 3 of my nieces. We've been trying to arrange dates and times to visit since September. They've ghosted most of our contact attempts. One finally offered a non-committal idea then said (basically) "Sorry, something came up" in pulling back from it. Well, we've been here in the area for 3 days now with no further answers, despite us reaching out, gently, once a day. We're done trying.
Our plan was to stay here through tomorrow, then drive up to Pennsylvania on Wednesday. We figured we could leave early or late depending on Wednesday plans. But at this point we couldn't even line up Tuesday plans. So this morning we called an audible. We'lre packing our bags now to leave a day early. We'll run one quick errand in town then hit the road to Pennsylvania. Hawk's parents are already really happy they'll get to see us a day early.
It's a sad extension of how I've already limited time visiting my own family the past two years. Now it pertains to more of my extended family. They're too busy living their lives to make time to see me when I try to visit. So after a reasonable try I move on. At least I have somewhere to go where people are excited to see me. It's bittersweet it's my inlaws instead of my own family.



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